The first day of Kindergarten is when I first met my dear friend Sumer. I remember her mom sitting this pretty blonde beside me and saying, “You girls are going to best friends.” That was that, and we were…..we played at school together and after school and had sleep over’s whenever we could. We even celebrated our September birthdays together growing up and her grandma would make us matching dresses with bloomers so we could flip on the monkey bars.
Ironically she now lives right down the street from me with her adorable family and we Still get to see each other – although never as often as we’d like.
A little history to this project is that several years ago when a tornado came through the South Rock Creek area their new house they’d just built was one that was hit and destroyed, but according to insurance still salvageable, so they gathered up what they could and started again in the same place.
Then, about a month ago this same house was involved in a fire that was started from lightening that came with severe storms but this time destroyed it beyond repair.
After seeing them sift through the ashes and recover what they could it was time to tear it down and start yet again on rebuilding their home and lives. When Sumer called me with the idea of taking some final photos of their home before it had to be torn down I was more than eager to help in any way I could.
I love Sumer for her heart and her vision. I love how her resilience has been passed down to her children and how she stays positive about challenge that comes her way. I wanted to do this project justice and to see what she saw. Past the soot, smoke and ashes to the emotions of what the house meant to them all. I wanted to capture the place where they all loved and laughed, and now a place where they will build a new house with new memories to fill it.
So the ever eager hosts, Miss J and Mr. B, gave me a grand tour of what was left of their home. They melted my heart just like the paint on the walls when they would enthusiastically pick up a small treasure they would come across saying, “Look, Jesus saved it mom.”
These two have quite the personalities and I LOVED seeing bits of my friend in each one of them!
“Mom, I “Mustache” you a question.” HA!!
To make sure I did this justice I called upon some of my photography friends to pick their brains on this project and get some different perspective and was taken aback when several of them said they wouldn’t take this project on.
They told me they worried it would come off scary or morbid and maybe too “Children of the Corn.” What?!?! I never thought about this project in that light. I knew that we were onto something here and although Sumer and I are friends because we both think outside of the box I didn’t think we were too out there with this.
So I strapped on my big girl camera and I did it anyways and I have never been more proud of a project in my life. I am proud to be friends with this family and I am feel blessed to get to be a part of “their living art project.”
I feel even more touched by what I learned that day. I learned just like their children that things are just things and that in the end……all we need is LOVE to make a house a home. They have ALL of that they need – because they have each other!
Thank you for letting me be a part of your journey, thank you for teaching me what resilience really is, thank you for teaching me about faith and family……but more important finding what’s MOST important when you sift through the ashes.
Sparkle and Spur,
“All you need is love, Love is all you need.”